What is driving your life? When you speak are you being driven by the Spirit or by Hell? When you speak in the Spirit, you speak words of edification that build people up. When you speak under the influence of Hell, your words are destructive and demeaning. James tells us that we need a new heart in order to live a life that is pleasing to God. Repentance is an important step on the road to healing. This is more than discipline, it is a revelation of who I am.